Having Sex With your “Ex”
“Dating an ex is
the equivalent of failing a test you already had the answers to.” —Kendrick Cole
Hey Realers:
I know it sucks for us having to
stay home and on lockdown. But know a healing is on the way soon. And we will
be free to roam…hang in there.
The other day, my friend informed that she is
sleeping with her ex after a dramatic break-up. I thought mmmmmmm, the sex must
be off the chain – I mean, damn good, for her to go back after
“that” breakup!
You see, at one time, under no conditions would I
sleep with an ex and certainly not be his friend. I mean I got friends, why
would I want to continue a friendship with an ex? He is an ex for some reason,
right?!
But now that I am wise, romantically
experienced, mature, and got my emotions in check, a renewed relationship with
someone from the past might prove more successful than before. My past
relationships with an ex may have failed due to external circumstances, not
due to the lack of love or incredible sex!
I am not entertaining the idea of jumping into a
relationship with an ex, especially if there is too much work and he/she still
demonstrates the same behavior that caused us to breakup in the first
place. However, darlings if the sex with him was the best thing since sliced
bread, I certainly may be open – yeah gurl!
Just remember Realers, remind yourself and
this is an important fact – you broke up for a reason. Take in consideration
“that” reason and your emotions too.
And as it has been said many times before, dust
settles, not YOU!
Just sayin’
- Here are the take-a -ways and the link to read the details. (please read the article - a good one)
v But while many will say that sleeping with
an ex can be bad for you, it's not all dark and gloomy territory.
v For some, sleeping
with an ex can actually be a good and, in some cases, fulfilling thing.
In the meantime, Keep it Real!
BTMB Contributor
Toni Counts Rose
Email Me: groovytee12@yahoo.com
