-The Rose Letters- Feb 28, 2020

-The Rose Letters-

Keep it Real!

 How to Deal With A Breakup and Heal Your Heart

 Happy “Love” Readers Love is Patient, But don’t keep it Waiting-Dr. Venus Nicolino

 Love love love.
We all want love, be in love, and give love. But damn, it's gotta hurt when your heart is broken. You just want the pain to go away. You call everybody that will listen to your story. Because you need to blame her/him, right? Of course, you got it going on so it cannot be you right? Righhhhhhhhhhhht! You eat or don’t eat; you drink more than you should; and you are quick to rebound with that woman/man to fulfill that sexual desire and ease that heartache. 

I remember listening to one of those “oh you done, done me wrong” songs years ago. And the singer said she knew when she was over her heartache when she woke up and did not need him to call her anymore.

Oh yeah been there and back, and been there again throughout the years. BUT done that and not going back again. Why? Because I know my heart cannot be broken even though in the moment it is hurting. You see, our purpose in our “love” life is evolve and grow in the relationship. That is what love is alllll about, evolving and growing.

So, the next time the relationship ends – do not look at it as failure but simply, that you two did not grow and evolve at a similar pace, in a similar direction, or with a similar vision.

We must let go of want we do not want so we can make ourselves available for what we DO want in our lives. To evolve and grow in love!!!

Here are the take-a-ways and the link to read the details:

• Accept and let go
• Feel all your feelings
•  Reflect and learn the lessons that the relationship was there to teach you
• Take time to be alone
• Bless your ex 

The details reference link:

https://kuteblackson.com/blog/?p=2942

In the meantime, Keep it Real!

-BTMB Contributor-
Toni Counts Rose

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