Saturday, 28 March 2020

-The Rose Letters- March 28, 2020

Happy Springtime Readers!  Love is in the air!

“The happiness you feel is in direct proportion with the love you give.” ― Oprah

I know, you’re thinking, she gotta be kidding me with the COVID-19 virus? SERIOUSLY??!!

Yes seriously! Due to the coronavirus, folks are finding other ways to stay in touch. And that includes keeping those long-distance relationships on FIRE!

Because most of us are on ‘lockdown’, all of our relationships appear to be long-distance if you are not living with your honey or not married. 

I have had several long-distant relationships before” Miss Rona” and they were successful, but took lots of effort, consistency, and commitment. I found the most important long-distant relationship element was communicating daily. You must find time and ways to communicate daily. All the technology we have, there just isn’t no excuse to reach-out-and-touch your boo daily. Also, make sure you resolve all arguments within 24 hours. Do not leave anything to chance for the soul to go cold and wandering…Finally, please please watch your tone and deliverance of the message. Especially if you are talking on the phone and they cannot see you. Of course, you meant it a certain way, but it did not come out the way. So, check your bass and tone in your voice. 

Remember Readers, not all conversations are meant for texting due to lack of emotions. Call her/him, how hard is that? And when “Miss Rona” is over, get on the first thing smoking, plane, train, boat, bus, or car and go visit ya man/woman!

Here are the take-a -ways and the link to read the details.

v Communicate with each other daily

v Schedule as many visits as possible

v Enjoy free time and space

v Work arguments out Promptly

 Readers I have a blog now – Please see the link below or you may reply at the email.

In the meantime, Keep it Real!

-BTMB Contributor-
Toni Counts Rose

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Sunday, 1 March 2020

-The Rose Letters- Feb 28, 2020

-The Rose Letters-

Keep it Real!

 How to Deal With A Breakup and Heal Your Heart

 Happy “Love” Readers Love is Patient, But don’t keep it Waiting-Dr. Venus Nicolino

 Love love love.
We all want love, be in love, and give love. But damn, it's gotta hurt when your heart is broken. You just want the pain to go away. You call everybody that will listen to your story. Because you need to blame her/him, right? Of course, you got it going on so it cannot be you right? Righhhhhhhhhhhht! You eat or don’t eat; you drink more than you should; and you are quick to rebound with that woman/man to fulfill that sexual desire and ease that heartache. 

I remember listening to one of those “oh you done, done me wrong” songs years ago. And the singer said she knew when she was over her heartache when she woke up and did not need him to call her anymore.

Oh yeah been there and back, and been there again throughout the years. BUT done that and not going back again. Why? Because I know my heart cannot be broken even though in the moment it is hurting. You see, our purpose in our “love” life is evolve and grow in the relationship. That is what love is alllll about, evolving and growing.

So, the next time the relationship ends – do not look at it as failure but simply, that you two did not grow and evolve at a similar pace, in a similar direction, or with a similar vision.

We must let go of want we do not want so we can make ourselves available for what we DO want in our lives. To evolve and grow in love!!!

Here are the take-a-ways and the link to read the details:
  • Accept and let go
  • Feel all your feelings
  •  Reflect and learn the lessons that the relationship was there to teach you
  • Take time to be alone
  • Bless your ex 
The details reference link:

In the meantime, Keep it Real!

-BTMB Contributor-
Toni Counts Rose
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